Blog EntryFixing Social NetworkingJul 7, '05 5:44 PM
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In my previous journal entry I wrote that Social Networking is Not Broken but, rather, it is the perception of social networking that needs fixing. Too often, the knee-jerk reaction is to classify any site that leverages one’s social network as a YASN (“yet another social network”) -  a short-sighted generalization that unfairly casts a negative stigma on sites that may  be unique and useful.  

Who, though, is to blame for this negative stigma? Here are a few candidates:  

Friendster. They are probably the most well-known “social networking” site. Molly Wood writes “My big beef with Friendster was always, 'Well, what would I do there?'". What you can do is see how big you can grow your network by adding contacts. And since one has a limited pool of real-world contacts it quickly became not just acceptable, but common-place to add strangers as contacts on Friendster.  

Kleiner, Perkins, Caufield & Byers. When this VC firm decided to fund the severance packages of high-profile Friendster execs it gave Friendster’s breed of social networking legitimacy. Hundreds of journalists started covering “social networking”, and hundreds of thousands signed up for Friendster and asked themselves the same question Molly Wood asked.  

Orkut. Under the guise of wanting to ramp up slowly, Orkut launched as an invite-only site. Soon blogs writing about Orkut weren’t complete without a handful of invitation requests in the replies. Orkut made it fashionable to add strangers as contacts as way to get into the service. Networks were artificial from day one.  

Tom. You know Tom. Everybody knows Tom. He’s the most popular person on the planet.  If you sign-up for Myspace he’s your friend that connects you to every other user on Myspace, including dozens of porn stars. If part of the fun of Friendster was seeing how big of a network you could get, Myspace upped the ante by giving people a humongous network to start (and perhaps a more interesting one because it contains porn stars).  

It’s unfair, though, to put all the blame  for social networking’s negative stigma on those mentioned above. They are all simply trying to make a buck. Good for them. The real culprits are the journalists and bloggers who perpetuate the notion that all social networking services are alike. These are the people that made Friendster synonymous with “social networking” even though the application is still in question to this day. Most continue to label Myspace a "social network" even though every user on the site is linked to one common node. Some writers flocked to Orkut, loaded their contact lists with strangers, and then, ironically, complain that social networking doesn’t work.  

The press coverage of social networking often misses the boat on two important concepts: target market, and the actual application.  It’s not uncommon for somebody to casually write about “social networking” and refer to 3 or 4 web sites that have nothing in common.  

Recently Judith Meskill wrote that LinkedIn is one of the only SNS in which I continue to maintain a semi-active membership. The likely reason is that Ms. Meskill is part of LinkedIn's target market. Myspace, according to Molly Wood, “attracts 16 to 34-year-old hipsters.”  While I don't know Ms. Meskill's age, based on her writing style and my correspondence with her, I wouldn’t describe her as a “hipster” nor am I surprised she doesn’t use Myspace. And that is exactly what Myspace wants! If non-hipsters started using Myspace, then it wouldn’t be for hipsters and their trendy niche is shot.  

More important than the target market is the application itself. What does the service help its users do? What is the goal of the service?  Judith Meskill says she’s semi-active on LinkedIn. The reason, in my opinion, that she uses LinkedIn and not, say... Friendster, has nothing to do with which site is better at “social networking” but rather which site is better at providing what Ms. Meskill wants to do.  

So, if social networking is “broken”, how do you fix it? Easy. When my 1 MP digital camera broke I threw it away. It wasn’t worth fixing. Do the same with the phrase “social networking” as it pertains to an industry or space. “Social networking” is merely a technology. It’s a component. Let’s stop writing about it as an industry. Just like we don't lump together E-mail and Instant Messaging as "contact list" applications, we should stop referring to any site that takes advantage of what will soon be a ubiquitous way to manage contact lists as a “social networking site”.  

Don’t write articles that compare Friendster to LinkedIn to Multiply.  Write about what these sites are about and group them with their true competitors.  Friendster is about meeting new people socially. So compare Friendster to sites like Match.com. LinkedIn is about meeting new people in a professional context. So write about whether LinkedIn is better than Monster.com or other sites that help you meet new people in a professional context.  Multiply is about sharing digital media and social blogging. So don’t compare Multiply to Orkut or Friendster.  Compare Multiply to Flickr or Blogger.

In the article “Five reasons social networking doesn’t work” Molly Wood writes that Myspace will make “more than $20 million in ad sales this year”.  $20 million! That sounds like it does work! Just as inconsistent is her defining Myspace’s unique target audience yet still bashing all social networking sites as if they were the same. This article, which should be called “Five reasons that some social networking doesn’t work for me,” is indicative that what’s amiss is social networking coverage.  If journalists stopped referencing social networking as an industry unto itself, this article wouldn’t exist. Instead, we’d get some great pieces discussing how different applications, some tried-and-true like dating, and some cutting-edge like video-blogging, are leveraging this new technology in compelling ways.  

persianmatt wrote on Jul 11, '05
Very well written Michael.

I certainly agree that sites like Multiply and MySpace, with two completely different formats and objectives, were knowingly lumped together for the article.

I am an active user of both aforementioned 'social networking' sites and use both for different purposes. For example, after a night out with friends, I log onto MySpace and upload the new pictures to receive pride and praise from my peers. The fact that there are many people I don't know IRL makes it more appealing I believe. On the other hand, when interesting news breaks I log onto Multiply to share with my network. If there's already a thread open, not only do I get a handle of how far the news has spread and what the reaction is, but I contribute to the thread with my own thoughts. In addition, I've found numerous articles thru Multiply that I would have regretted missing, had I not been privy to the service. The difference for me is Multiply is intellectually intriguing, while MySpace is aesthetically exciting.

However, I disagree that social networking as a whole has a negative stigma attached to it. Within the blog world, there are always negative comments to be found on everything from electronics to politics, regardless of how popular they may be. Besides blogs and online powerhouses like Ebay and Amazon, most mainstream media seemingly don't editorialize their coverage of these web sites.

In the end, whether the discussion is music, movies, books, blogs, or social-networking sites... the true test comes from the user not the critic, and this user is more than content.
marc wrote on Jul 11, '05
However, I disagree that social networking as a whole has a negative stigma attached to it.
I think Mike is right about the stigma. I just spoke to a friend of mine over the weekend. I had invited him to join Multiply around 6 months ago, and I asked why he didn't sign up. His answer was something like, "yeah, I saw the invitation... but I'm really not into those kinds of sites." I asked what he meant by "those kinds" and he said, "you know, the Friendster thing where you invite everyone in the world to be your friend."

He had dismissed Multiply without even reading the invitation or visiting the site. I then had to explain to him how Multiply is so much different than Friendster.
garmarber wrote on Jul 11, '05
Multiply is about sharing digital media and social blogging.
I've had a number of people not accept my invitations to Multiply or accept and never visit again due to the feeling that Multiply is like Friendster or they just don't know what it is. I haven't checked out the home page of Multiply lately or what someone sees when they first are linked to the site from an invitation, but what Michael said above is the most illustrative and concise description of Multiply I have heard to date. If you don't already use a description like that, I hope you will.

Great write-up, Michael.

kayt wrote on Jul 11, '05
I do think there is a component of "social networking" to Multiply, but not in the sense that this article uses the term.

Long ago, when people traveled, they often carried with them letters of introduction. If a traveler's friend or relative had a cousin in Kalamazoo, that letter of introduction could get that traveler at least a meal, if not a place to stay and an escort about town. Though the majority of my contacts are people I know from real life, I do have a few now whom I've never met outside cyberspace, but who are closely linked to someone I know well. I feel that I've received "letters of introduction" for those people by folks I trust. I will blog with them on here, and heck, if they made their way to my neck of the woods, I'd probably offer them at the very least a big drink.
danbirchall wrote on Jul 26, '05, edited on Jul 26, '05
I'm with Kayt. Multiply isn't the antithesis of a social networking site - it's just designed and engineered in such a way as to discourage frivolous social networking. I think the folks who built it learned from the mistakes of others.

And that's cool, in my book. It's not that I mind being friends with porn stars or whatever, but I don't want to be friends with places, abstract nouns, plants, non-corporeal beings, and so on. And if I am friends with porn stars, I want to be their friend offline. ;)
jimbo2150 wrote on Sep 22, '05
Amazing article, will link to to this great entry (and give props!) when I make my own 'Social Networking' post!

I agree with you, too many people think most of these sites are alike when they are not. Not just in features but in style, objective, and direction.

I recently moved here from MySpace (and originally Friendster) because I did not like the services, and Blogger is just that... a blog, nothing else.

What I like about Multiply is its combination of many great features. A blogging system similar to what I enjoyed with Blogger without all the restrictions of MySpace, Friendster, Yahoo! 360, ect. This is a networking site that seems to combine elements from both MySpace and Friendster (and possibly a few others) rather than sticking with one style (and one audience). By design Multiply blocks a lot more spam than do other sites, and the whole site also has much room to grow and expand unlike MySpace, Friendster, and 360.

I also like the fact that Multiply isn't owned/operated by some conglomerate that wants to contol every aspect without listening much to it's users needs and demands. For instance MySpace is now owned by FOX (the TV network), Friendster was bought by Microsoft (good luck there...), and 360 is Yahoo! (with severely limited freedom).
ladykatya wrote on Oct 28, '07
After the sad news that Yahoo 360 was going to be not mare at the begging of the year 2008, I try almost every blog spot looking for a social network similar to what we had there I finally found it all our friends are here and they seen happy
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